My Least Favorite First Date Question
14 Feb 2013

My Least Favorite First Date Question

I meet David at a restaurant of his choosing in my neighborhood and it’s not long before he pops my least favorite first date question. “So, Khristina . . . what kind of music do you like?” Sandwiched in the Great Book of Icebreakers somewhere between, “Nice weather we’re having, don’t you think” and, “So, what do you do for fun,” the music question is...

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3 Ways You May Have Stopped Being an Irresistible Invitation to Love
13 Feb 2013

3 Ways You May Have Stopped Being an Irresistible Invitation to Love

In the beginning of almost every relationship, we’re totally irresistible to each other. We’re perfect in each other’s eyes. We do special things for each other like leave love notes and set up special surprise dinners for our loved one. We can’t get enough of each other. We talk all the time. We tell each other anything and everything. We’re totally open, curious, and willing...

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A Simple Way to Deepen Love
11 Feb 2013

A Simple Way to Deepen Love

I’m hearing Aretha in my head, wailing the anthem that carried many women into a new paradigm in their personal and professional relationships. I’m seeing images of Gloria Steinem from her recent HBO documentary, giving her interviewers and deriders her full attention and straightforward responses. And I’m appreciating all the interactions I’ve had with Gay over the years that built this solid, yet flexible structure....

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Can You Feel Your Wedding Day?
08 Feb 2013

Can You Feel Your Wedding Day?

For those of you in serious love manifestation process, it’s always a good idea to begin creating some ideas of what your wedding day might consist of.   What music do you want to dance to? What’s will the cake taste like?  Is it a daytime or nighttime affair?  And, most importantly, what vows will you make to your soulmate? I believe in paying attention to...

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Are You Breaking These 3 Rules of Love? Make sure you attract more love, not less, into your life.
06 Feb 2013

Are You Breaking These 3 Rules of Love? Make sure you attract more love, not less, into your life.

As a culture and as human beings, we spend just about as much time talking about and thinking about our relationships, and our relationship status as we do about how we are going to pay our bills and lose 5 lbs. Millions of dollars, maybe even trillions of dollars, are spent trying to find the one, make the one we have better, and decide if...

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4 Fun Ways to Put More Spark Back into Your Relationship
04 Feb 2013

4 Fun Ways to Put More Spark Back into Your Relationship

Cindy is bored with her marriage. She’s embarrassed to admit it because so many of her friends are in relationships that are conflict-ridden and have been destroyed by cheating. She feels sure that her husband Paul is faithful to her, and she knows he loves her. But, she really misses the way things used to be for them. Before kids. Before home maintenance. Before demanding...

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Does Your Relationship Drive You Crazy?
01 Feb 2013

Does Your Relationship Drive You Crazy?

Shortly after we were married, we went to India and spent our honeymoon in monasteries and ashrams. We also had a private meeting with the Dalai Lama at his residence in McLeod Ganj, in the foothills of the Himalayas. As Ed recalls: After some thirty minutes of talking with him, I was feeling so moved by this gentle and loving man that I didn’t want...

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Dating Nightmare: What To Do When He Flakes?
30 Jan 2013

Dating Nightmare: What To Do When He Flakes?

Remember when I had that gut instinct about Pete? When I just knew we’d get along and turned out to be right? Well, come Tuesday morning – the day of our second date – I have another prickle of intuition. He’s not going to call. He is flaking out! I try to calm myself because . . . clearly he is interested. I have had...

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Can Fear Lead You to Love?
26 Jan 2013

Can Fear Lead You to Love?

When we speak with a potential client in a strategy session, the first question we ask is “What is your biggest fear in relationship?” The answers we receive are varied, however, the response always leads us to what is blocking that person from receiving the love they desire. Identifying what is blocking you from love is the first step to removing it. These blocks are...

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Love the One You’re With
26 Jan 2013

Love the One You’re With

I was re-listening to Arielle Ford’s interview on the Lifetime Love Affair Summit about “How to Wabi Sabi Your Relationship”, based on her new book, Wabi Sabi Love. For those of you who missed it, Wabi Sabi is the ancient Japanese art of seeing the perfection in the imperfect. The Quest for Perfection or How to Commit to Misery for Life We get so obsessed...

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